Every test in our life makes us bitter or better

Sometimes we don't seem to understand that we go through trials and tribulations to see how strong we are. Some of these trials can either make us or break us. Alot of the times our trials seems to break us instead of make us.
The whole reason why we undergo the trials we do in life is to test us and see how fast we are to give in. Like this quote says every test in our life can make us bitter or better. One things that I have learned is that through all the trials I go through I want to come out of it better than how I handled it. When we undergo certain difficulties in our life, sometimes we feel hopeless and stressed. We may cry, isolate ourselves from everyone and anything but the important thing to remember is that every obsticle or trial we go through it is a test and we can't let it break us but instead we tackle it head on with a smile. That may not always be possible but we can always try.
Our problems can define who we are or define how strong we are. I have gone through so much in life that I can't even name all the things I have gone through. There were days I gave up, cried my eyes out, did not want to see or be around anyone. I just built a bubble around myself and wanted to be left alone. I was letting my problems break me instead of building myself. I was the victim. I chose to be the victim. I felt sorry for myself.
It was not until after I took a long look at myself and my life and decided that I was no longer going to be the victim but instead the victor. It feels so great to be the victor. To say I did not let my problems define who I am.
The choice is ours. We choose what we will be and how we will rise from it. I tackle all my problems with a smile on my face. I live life and smile always. I no longer let my problems break me but instead build me. I am a VICTOR.
Don't let your problems break you but instead build you. Be the VICTOR not the victim. If you let all your problems break you down, then you will be miserable and unhappy for the rest of your life.
Remember our trials are to make us stronger and to be better but not to bring us down. It is hard sometimes and does hurt but lets defeat our problems.